Many leaders live by the motto “lead by example”, based on the belief that followers will be drawn towards those that can set the standard.
Some believe working harder than everyone else, longer than others, or better than most, is showing true leadership. Many are of the opinion that, unless you’ve done it yourself, you can’t lead others.
I’ve never been an advocate of this concept. Leadership is not about being able to do everything at a level that others aspire to achieve. Setting the example that others strive towards, is not only limited by the capabilities of the leader but can also indicate the characteristics of the follower.
People that are drawn towards those that lead by example, have limited capacity to set their own standards. They potentially lack the self-motivation to reach their full potential on the basis that they only need to achieve the standards set by others. They resist taking a pathway, unless previously achieved or through the guidance of others. This is why an environment that encourages people to “lead by example” is detrimental. It’s based on the concept of replicating something that already exists.
Rather than setting standards by example, leaders should behave in a way that encourages people to achieve their full potential, irrespective of the strengths and deficiencies of the leader. This creates an environment where people strive to set the highest possible expectations on themselves, without comparing to others. This allows everyone to act and behave in a way that eliminates the competitive nature of success or failure.
In summary, be emulated not replicated. Don’t be one that leads by good example… be an example of a good leader.








